Casually hooking up with people for many is the sort of thing you hear about from stories in magazines or see in television shows and movies. It’s rarely something most of us ever think about ourselves or even consider but over the past few years it seems more and more are now dipping their toe in the casual dating pool. Isn’t it about time you did too?

While we’re all very familiar with the idea of hitting the bars and clubs in hope of getting lucky, believe it or not dating sites have continued to prove popular and successful even in the casual dating sector. Not only is it much more relaxed chatting to new people from the comfort of your own home or even mobile phone, but it’s also a hell of a lot easier to meet women looking for sex. So whether you’re using the World Wide Web or your local bar, what should you do?

Remember to be absolutely honest when it comes to talking about yourself. This applies both online or if you meet someone randomly in a bar or club. There’s no point telling a guy or girl that you’re looking for something serious if you’re not. There’s certainly no benefit to lying about your interests be it sexually or other. Bottom line is whatever fabricated line it is you spin, you will be eventually found out. And after all, what’s the point in simply trying to tell the other person what they want to hear when it’s not going to make you completely happy anyways.

Remember first impressions are everything and this is no more evident than with casual hook-ups especially since the time you have is much more limited than if it were a long term thing.

While the term casual dating makes it seem like you can be exactly that – casual, the exact opposite is in fact true. Don’t show up all scruffy and head over to your local fast food joint. Treat your casual encounter as if it were any other dating situation (of course with the guarantee of sex by the end of it). That means making the effort – throw on a shirt or dress, take a shower beforehand and go to a nice establishment. After all if things do end up in the bedroom, hygiene is very important for both parties.

Then of course safety is something to consider. It’s easy to get lost in all the excitement of having one passionate night with a complete stranger, but it’s important to remain safe too whether it be by taking the necessary precautions during sex or just in general when meeting a person. I don’t really need to go into detail on how to stay safe between the sheets I’m sure, but before you even reach this point make sure you’re in or going to somewhere you feel familiar and safe in.

All in all, casual dating can be great fun. The carefree nature of it all is extremely appealing and it’s no wonder more and more people are venturing into this lifestyle. While at first it may seem daunting, with enough practice and know-how you’ll soon be living the life like a pro.

When it comes down to finding potential partners, there is now an increasing availability of people out there. Whether people are looking for life partners or just a bit of booby fun, the modern web now has many specialist websites where like-minded people can meet up to get what they want. What where once called unusual dating practices have emerged away from the underground scene and are now part of the mainstream scene.

A diverse dating scene
The expansion of the dating scene has enabled people to open themselves up about what they want and given them opportunities to achieve their desires. Whilst a lot of people are into traditional dating and looking for lifelong partners, many of us are equally looking to just have a bit of fun. The search for casual fun can be explained by the fact that some of us do not have the time, or do not desire any forms of complicated commitment. Either way, it is great that the choice is now available without having to lie to our future partners about our real intentions.

Specialist niches
Before the existence of specialist websites, there was a lot of risk of getting in the wrong conversation with the wrong people. So much effort and hassle can now be saved by being able to reach the right people via the right channels. This really avoids those awkward moments when we realise the people we are talking to are not into what we like; resulting in rejection. But because of all those new dating niches, people no longer have to feel rejected for choosing to enjoy themselves. We can now find different dating categories, from fuck buddy dating to more traditional dating, helping us in our quest for romance or just simple fun.

Couples welcome!
The dating scene is not exclusive to single people. In fact, people who enjoy multiple sexual partners now also have more opportunities to hook up for a good time. Couples can also easily find other like-minded couples online. This not only makes things easier but also adds more discretion to the process; as people are not required to attend specialist night-clubs where they might not want to be seen. Instead, being able to meet people online and then inviting them to our more private parties is a great way to keep control over our circles of people.

Knowing what we want
The best thing we can do these days is knowing what we want. Once we figure out what we enjoy, there is not much excuse why we cannot obtain it. It is incredibly relieving to know that there are a lot of other like-minded people wanting to do the same things we do. So the best thing to do is to figure out who we are, what we want and what we have to offer. This should go a long way into making an attractive online profile for the dating websites we decide to subscribe to. After having chosen the right website and completed our profile, the only thing left to do is to go through the answers and find those perfect boobs!

by Evan King

Research study demonstrates that men — and women — check out female boobs equally!

by Coleen Singer

Usually, a woman can tell when someone’s eyes aren’t on her face and are, well, focused elsewhere on her body and often take a bit of umbrage at this optical behavior. There’s a reason for the t-shirts that say “My Eyes Are Up Here”.

But how, exactly, does that “objectifying gaze” play out? Despite plenty of anecdotal evidence, research had yet to empirically document the nature of roving eyes when it came to women’s bodies until now.

A new study by University of Nebraska-Lincoln psychologists Sarah Gervais and Michael Dodd employed eye-tracking technology to intricately map the visual behavior of both men and women as they viewed images of different body types.

When asked to focus on a woman’s appearance, study participants largely looked at women in “that way”, they quickly moved their eyes to and then dwelled on a woman’s breasts and other sexualized body parts.

The study was published in the academic journal Sex Roles and, researchers said, could provide the first steps toward addressing objectifying gazes and limiting their effects on women.

Though the men in the study exhibited such visual behavior consistently, the researchers found that women’s eye patterns actually were similar to men’s. However, male participants regarded the curvaceous women more positively than women with fewer curves, whereas female participants viewed these women similarly.

The researchers outfitted 65 college students with an eye tracking device and asked them to look at 30 photos of 10 college-aged women and to either rate the appearance or personality of the female in each picture. Each original image was manipulated to enhance or decrease the woman’s sexualized body parts in an attempt to determine whether specific body types were more or less likely to be objectified. It’s GOOD to have PhotoShop skills!

Though the results were consistent with anecdotal expectations of gaze behavior, Gervais said she was surprised with some of the findings, especially how strongly women’s visual patterns suggest they objectify other women.

“We do have a slightly different pattern for men than women, but when we looked at their overall dwell times‚ how long they focused on each body part‚ we find the exact same effects for both groups,” she said. “Women, we think, do it often for social comparison purposes.”

So, now we know! Although it’s a given that men do tend to check out the boobs of pretty much every woman they talk to, it turns out women do exactly the same thing for different reasons. Guys are just horny and can’t help taking a peek at a new set of boobs or a butt. Women also are checking each other out, but not because they are sexually interested. They are doing a comparison to themselves, much like checking out each other’s shoes.

“Do these boobs make my butt look fat?” It turns out that in least this instance, men and women are not that different after all.

Coleen Singer is a feature columnist for Sssh.com, the web’s original erotic site for women, by women. She is a Renaissance woman of many talents, but tries to remain humble in the face of all the curveballs life throws her way. She has been a professional writer for over two decades, and specializes in writing on media, culture, health and sexuality. You can see more of Coleen’s on her sex news and information site, eroticscribes.com

As boob lovers and humans, we always want more. If a busty girl refuse to show her nipples, we want to see her topless. If she only pose topless, we want to see her vagina. If she pose nude we want to see her do hardcore and if she does hardcore we want to see her get gangbanged by fifty midgets while licking a popsicle. Its just how it works.. so here is my top 5 list of busty models who have recently taken it one step further and went hardcore!

	#5 – Gravure Model Fuko Fuko, with her P-Cup breasts is a Japanese phenomenon who actually started her career by posing topless. She quickly decided to cover up though, and started to only do Gravure (Japanese bikini) magazines’s and DVD’s! That’s why it was such a pleasent surprise when she all of a sudden decided to not just get completely naked but to also have sex on camera! View Hardcore Gallery
	#4 – Page 3 Girl Linsey Dawn McKenzie Linsey Dawn McKenzie paved the way for busty Page 3 girls and also became a very popular model for SCORE magazine. In 2004 she decided to do her very first hardcore scene with her then husband Terry Canty which was released as a DVD special! This wasen’t a major surprise since she had done hardcore lesbian scenes previously, but every boob lovers penis was still standing in full attention. Since then she has also filmed a hardcore threesome before turning into a D-list celebrity in the UK. View Hardcore Gallery
	#3 – Penthouse Pet Hannah Hilton The first time Hannah Hilton flashed her breasts for a camera she was an unknown babe and did it for a Girls Gone Wild video. She started her adult career by posing nude for Penthouse as Pet of the Month in 2006 and quickly became a popular model on the internet. She did her first hardcore scene in 2008 with her boyfriend Venice for the Brazzers Network, and shortly after signed an exclusive contract with Vivid to further her career. View Hardcore Gallery
	#2 – Swimsuit Model Priya Rai Priya Rai started her career by modeling swimsuits but after a meeting with an adult photographer her career changed. She started to do nude modeling for the website Foxes and it didnt take long before she became one of the most popular nude models online. In late 2007 she did her very first hardcore shoot for Brazzers and haven’t looked back since! She has done plenty of DVD’s and recently got her own XXX website as well! View Hardcore Gallery
	#1 – Nude Model Jelena Jensen Every since her first photo shoot in 2003 boob lovers have fantasized to see Jelena Jensen do hardcore! She have posed nude on hundreds of websites, in tons of magazines and in several movies but only going as far as masturbating and doing dildos.. until 2009. To everyone’s surprise and glee she announced that she was going to do a live hardcore show exclusive on her website and to this date she has done two with hopefully more to come! View Hardcore Gallery

You should all know by now that Im a pervert so it should come to no surprise that I want to fuck a real doll. Sex dolls or the nicer term love dolls is a bit of a taboo among most people. If you own or have fucked a sex doll people might think you’re a loser that cant get laid in real life. Well, what’s the difference between a guy putting his cock into an artificially made vagina and a chick fucking a dildo? none really. I have never had sex with a love doll before and that’s because most of them looks like this:
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Not really attractive looking.

Then I discovered Real Doll. I’m sure you’ve all heard about it before. These dolls not only look very realistic but they are supposed to feel very realistic as well. They have a couple of nice and busty ones which I wouldn’t mind testing out, the only thing that worries me is that they might seem TOO real. I mean, it would be weird to fuck something that’s completely lifeless but looks human. I’d still like to try it out though and the only thing stopping me from getting one of these is the price tag. They are pretty damn expensive so if someone out there wants to get me one feel free to volunteer 🙂

You might think Im a weirdo now, but really.. I think most of you would wouldn’t mind fucking these:

Fuck the doll boobs!

I was kind of bored last night so I typed up a small story about me fucking a busty and fat african stripper named Rose. Not only is english not my native language but I got horny writing the story so please bare with the grammar or the spelling mistakes I’ve made.

Madame Rose – a fictional novel by Niklas

Two big and soft breasts is moving just a couple of inches from my face. The fat stripper is called madame Rose and she is from africa. She just got up on stage. She leans even closer towards me and her breasts almost fall out of the tiny bikini top she’s wearing. I can feel how my cock gets hard when I look up and her passionate eyes meet mine. Meet me backstage afterwards she whispers just before she gets up to continue her dance.

She moves rhytmic to the music while she slowly unties the top of her bikini. It doesnt take long before her big tits are exposed. I cant tear my eyes from them, when she starts to caress her dark nipples. With one of her hands she lifts up one of her tits so she can reach it with her tounge. Her full lips meet the nipple and while she sucks on it she looks straight at me. My dick is now so hard that my pants almost explode. She turns around and I can see that her tiny string almost dissapears between her fat buttocks. She bends over and because her string is so small I can see part of her pussy.

She gets up and turns around again. Suddenly she tears off the last piece of cloth on her body. Her pussy is clean shaved and if possible my dick gets even harder. Her hand moves downwards and when it finds the pussy she starts to play with it, all the while she looks straight at me. I remember what she said before and understand what her eyes mean. I get up to look for the backstage area of the club. When I find a door with the name Rose on it I quickly get in. The room is small but comfortable. All that is there is a bag of clothes, a chair, a mirror and a larger bench. I dont need to wait long.

Suddenly the door opens and madame Rose is standing there naked. I get up a little nervousely and without a word she walks towards me and starts to massage my dick threw my pants. She is shorter than me and I have to duck down to kiss her. Her full lips is soft and I get more and more horny when her tounge meets mine. I start to touch and caress her breasts and they are so big that they dont even fit in my hands. I can feel how her nipples get harder and harder when I play with them. She easily unbuttons my pants and grab my dick thats been hard ever since she walked on stage. While we kiss she slowly starts to jerk me off. She tears her lips away from mine and using her tounge she starts to move downwards. She gets on her knees and when she puts her big lips around my cock Im so horny that I almost cum right then and there.

It feels like I died and came to heaven. She begins by sucking my dick slowly while using her hands to caress my balls. Her mouth moves faster and faster and it takes all my effort not to cum to soon. Just before I cant hold it anymore she stops and with a smile looks up to me while licking her lips. She pushes me backwards so I have to sit down on the bench. With both her hands she place my dick between her gigantic tits. They are soft and covers my entire cock. She starts to move her tits up and down and while I titty fuck her she never once take her eyes off of me. I never want it to stop but after a short while she gets up again. Fuck me from behind is all she says while turning around and bending over. I get up and grap her wide hips. Like a heat seeking missile my dick finds her smooth pussy and I start to fuck her.

Her pussy is warm, wet and tight. Again I have to really focus on not having an orgasm too soon. Every time I push into her, tiny waves pulse on her big ass. I grab it with both my hands and while i fuck her harder and harder she moans louder and louder. When Im fucking her as hard as I can I smack her big butt with one of my hands. She likes it and I smack it again and again while my dick slides in and out. Im starting to get sweaty and I slow down while I bend towards her and with one of my hands I grab her tit. I look up and I can see myself fucking madame Rose from africa in the mirror.

We change position and she lies down on the bench with spread legs. Her shaved pussy is irresistable and it doesnt take long before my Im there with my dick again. She moans when I push it in again. While Im fucking her I can see her huge tits bounce back and forth. I almost get hypnotized by looking at them. Faster and faster my dick fucks her pussy. All of a sudden I can feel that Im getting closer and closer to cumming. With a roar I pull my dick out and just when it leaves her warm pussy my cum shoots all over her dark tits…

The end.

Im having some issues uploading pictures and files today so I’ll have to keep todays entry “text only”. I didn’t get much sleep last night because I spent the night at my girlfriends house and the people who live in her basement were noisy as hell. She’s a university student so she lives in a student house with two annoying assholes in her basement. I swear, they were doing laundry at 3:30 in the morning and I felt ready to put my foot in their ass in a non gay manner (not that there is anything wrong with it).

On a positive note, I had sex last night. I actually had great sex because my girl took a shower and had a clean shaved pussy ready to be licked and fucked. The only thing that might be better than big boobs is a shaved pussy. Actually, let me change that. The only thing that might be better than big boobs is a shaved pussy riding on your cock. Last night we only had regular in bed sex, but a couple of days ago we were fucking inside an IKEA store. You know how they have those show rooms with all the furniture set up like you’re inside someone’s house. Well, we went to the bathroom section and found a kind of hidden shower with a shower curtain etc. To make a short story even shorter, I fucked her in there. It was kind of fun to hear people outside talking about toilets or whatever while I had my cock all up in a pussy just a couple of feet away. If you ever get a chance, you should try that!

Keep the boobs bare in public!