5 Hottest Scenarios For When You’re Trying Sex Toys For The First Time

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We are finally living in a world where, if you’re sleeping on sex toys, you’re missing out. The benefits of using sex toys, whether you’re single or with a partner, are evident at this point, but only we are starting to talk about normalizing them.

Sex Toys Are Not The Monsters We Made Them Into

With distinctive and seductive designs, vibrant colors, and a variety of unique patterns, there’s something for everyone to enjoy – plus, the majority of them look like wellness gadgets. There are no creepy, vulgar images or connotations in sight – at least if you’re not into it, which is cool, too.

Today, with so many exciting options available, finding the perfect toy is a breeze, especially for beginners – it’s actually preferred, and it doesn’t matter if you have issues with your sexuality or simply want to explore. There is no shame whatsoever in using sex toys – they are, in actuality, your greatest sexual asset.

They are meant to feed and nurture your secret fantasies – exploring yourself and your partner, even working out unresolved trauma and self-consciousness.

Where To Begin?

So, if you already own at least one sex toy – kudos to you! But if you are a newcomer to the realm of sex toys, there are obligatory first steps you’ve got to go through in order for your experience to be – ahem – satisfactory. The first step would be buying the dang thing – duh. When you buy your first sex toy, please do:

Go to a trusted website;
Read reviews to get real people’s feedback;
Don’t choose anything too pricey for your first time – you’ll invest more once you figure out what you like;
Imagine how you’re going to use the sex toy that caught your eye. If the image excites you (in more ways than one) – congratulations! You found your first sex toy;
Once it gets delivered, play out that scenario and feel your body come to life in a way you didn’t know it could.

From the simplest, classic pocket pussies that are just a sexy step up from regular masturbation to intricate triple-action love rings that support stamina and close the orgasm gap, there is a journey ahead of you that you are bound to enjoy.

Follow The Scenario That Inspires Exploration

Imagine a setting where you feel at ease, safe, and uninhibited, alone or with your partner. It may include details like soft lighting or a sensual playlist, but those are unnecessary. The only thing needed for setting the stage for an erotic session and exploration is a mindset.

If you are determined to dive into this with an open mind, accepting that some things will work while others will not, you will come out happier and more satisfied with the outcome of this experience.

But How About Couple’s Exploration?

Now, when you’re by yourself, exploring a new sex toy you just bought, you have more freedom because you don’t have to listen to anyone’s body cues other than your own. And the setting can be whatever makes you comfortable. But if you’re doing this with your partner, it gets trickier.

We suggest you plan this naughty “date night” ahead and, before whipping out the sex toy, whether it’s a little vibrator or heavy-duty nipple clamps, go through a scenario that aroused you both.

As you both get comfortable, you dive into a playful role-play that ignites your wildest fantasies.

Maybe you become flirtatious strangers at a mysterious bar or a daring artist exploring each other’s bodies as your canvas – it doesn’t have to be full-on roleplay if you’re not into that. Still, it has to be planned, with a long foreplay, for temptation and anticipation to build up.

5 Lustful Scenarios to Experiment With Sex Toys As a Beginner

As a newcomer in the vast world of sex toys, it’s genuinely exciting to explore all the different options and try them out in unique ways that only your imagination can conjure. Immerse yourself in this seductive journey and embrace the adventure.

1. A sensual, deep massage

It may be basic, but massage works like a charm. Start with a full-body touching session, using a variety of aromatic oils, then slowly, teasingly add the sex toy to the sensations you’re both enjoying. It could be a pocket pussy you descend onto your lover to stroke them in continuation of the massage, or it could be a wand vibrator that you use to work out kinks in their muscles – and then some.

2. Passionate shower play

Is it true what they say about sex in the shower? That’s in uncomfortable and often… without finishing? Probably, but it’s hot as heck, and we don’t care. Bring a sexy, waterproof toy into the shower. The water and intimacy of the space can really enhance your experience, making it both playful and passionate. Let the warm water envelop you, amplifying every vibration and movement even more.

3. After-bath sexy routine

Light some candles, enjoy good red wine, and pamper each other with a great lotion after a relaxing bath or shower. After hot water, your skin will be sensitive and more receptive to touch, so any kind of sensory play would work amazing, even a blindfold.

4. Romantic, cinematic evening

Transform your bedroom into a cozy retreat by adding soft lighting, candles, and soothing music. Consider putting on a cock ring to highlight “excitement” and to tease each other with the idea of how naughty you can get if you reach past the shared popcorn bowl… Accidentally, of course!

5. Outdoor naughty play

Seek a more secluded area and bring a small, discreet toy. The excitement of being outside and the possibility of being discovered can amplify your sensations and heighten the thrill to another level.

Sex Toys Can Spice up Your Intimacy Like Nothing Else

Incorporating sex toys into your intimate moments can genuinely enhance the experience, adding excitement and a fresh perspective to your relationship. It’s not just about physical pleasure; it’s also about deepening your connection and exploring new things about each other.

Embrace the excitement of trying something new, give your body a chance to feel something more. You might find that a little variety can lead to unforgettable moments, transforming your intimacy into something vibrant and exhilarating. Explore together and discover how sex toys can enhance not only your pleasure but also the bond you share.

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