How to give an erotic massage to your Partner?

Massages are all about letting your body feel relaxed, less tense and pleased after days or hours of stressful endeavours. It helps to calm the nerves and also relish the warm and soft touches that caress so gently.

So, how to add a little spice to this soothing endeavour? While regular massages are sweet and relaxing, erotic massages will rev up your nerves, arouse your senses, and pleasure your senses, edging you on till you crave the real deal.

How to try out this sensual foreplay tactic on your partner? We have compiled a list of tips that turn regular and loving massaging into a lustful teasing session for your lover. Let’s check it out!

#1. Create a Sexual Scene

A massage is only erotic if the surroundings add to it. You can’t expect your love to feel relaxed and pleased by your messages while the room’s bright light is on or rock music is blaring through your sound system.
Hence, setting the mood is of utmost importance. Thankfully, there are multiple ways to do it. For starters, dim the light in the room and choose a soothing shade for your dimmed light. It could be a soft purple shade, or a calming pink one, both of which are colours of lust and love.
Up next, make sure the room has an alluring scent. Choose her favourite scent and get her some massaging oils or candles to boost the steamy quotient of the room. If scented oils are not her style, you can go for essential oil diffusers to fill the room with a calming and sensual aromatic.
Additionally, you can opt for some soft and sexy music to set the mood. Remember that massage parlour music does not fit the bill. It can be a song she likes during sex or something you find hot and carnal.
These little changes in the room can turn up the heat and make your massage session feel unforgettable.

2. Careful with the Choice of Massage Oil

Two things to keep in mind when choosing an erotic massage oil are:

Are they allergic to the ingredients?

Do they like the oil?

While you’ll find several oils online or in-store, promising a sexy time after it touch your lover, chances are, they might not like it. Some massage oils have a strong and rich smell, which might diffuse the arousal altogether due to their overwhelming scent.
Your lover might prefer different flavours according to the seasons. For example, they might like a soothing light oil for summer sexual escapades and a coconutty and chocolaty scent for steamy winter massages. So you can always choose accordingly. Asking her about her preference will ease your oil hunt.
CBD oils, for example, are perfect for a relaxing massage. They help soothe the nerves, which makes this sensual foreplay more successful. Nutty oils like almond oil, apricot oil, and coconut oil are perfect for erotic massage. Plus, if you get these with a dash of fruity or flowery flavours, expect your lover to see stars as you rub them over their sensitive parts.
But always keep in mind their allergies. Allergic reactions to oil are a common instance. Hence asking your lover about it is crucial. Let them suggest their favourite flavours always, as they know their allergic reactions the best.
Doing so will make these massaging sessions more romantic and sexy.

3. Massage Their Muscles Slowly

Erotic massaging is all about going slow and sexy. Their sensitive areas need loving, as well as their entire body. While being sensual is the key, teasing them everywhere will help them open up to your touches and relish every moment of it.
Foreplay is essential in every relationship, hence, going directly to massage their erogenous and genitals isn’t always as hot as it seems. Instead, apply long and slow strokes over their shoulders, waists and thighs. Doing these helps ease their muscles and ease their nerves for a soothing effect.
Let them feel the heat as your hands wander carelessly against their erogenous zones while massaging a nearby area. Watch them heave and moan as your fingers glide over their sensitive parts, but not stopping at them.
While massaging, you might come across a knot. Those are tense areas that need some loving. Slowly massage this hunk of stress off their bodies with the heel of your hand and some sweet-smelling oil. This helps their bodies and minds ease up further.
Massaging is only fun and flirtatious when you’re giving all your love to not only their sensitive spots but also their tensed areas that crave some soft and gentle treatment.

4. Now For the Naughty Parts

Now that their body is relaxed and ready for some more teasing, it’s time to get to the good parts: your lover’s erogenous zones. With their backs, necks, and arms relaxed, it’s time to make their sensitive love spots receive some carnal touches.
Start by massaging around their erogenous spots, such as fondling around the nipples before touching them, or rubbing oil over their thighs and letting your thumb wander off in the inner thighs.
For more seductive touches, you can opt for massaging one non-sensitive, and one sensitive spot at the same time. Doing so helps their bodies relax and receive the arousing treatment your fingers and palms dish out.
After much sexual tension, feel their bodies give into your touches, grinding against your fingers and even guiding you towards their other sensitive spots for some lewd loving. The trick is to tease them and withhold a little so they crave it more and more as time passes.
Ask them if they’re into pleasing themselves while you massage. Your lover might enjoy playing with their genitalia who;e you fondle their thighs and breasts. It’s a heavy erotic moment to watch them edge themselves from the tip of that heightened arousal you’ve left their bodies in. All in all, give an erotic massage they’ll never forget.

The Takeaway

There’s something extremely carnal about a hot and steamy erotic massage in a low-lit room, with sweet-smelling candles engulfing your lover’s senses as your hands make them relaxed and aroused.
So why not try this on your love today?

September 25th, 2023
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